Pelvic Bleeding

I am a 24 yr old mother of 2 boys , ages 1 and 5. In 2005 i started seeing my OBGYN for my annual check ups I had recieved my pap test for 2005 and all was normal. For some reason or another he didnt do a pap on me once more until july of 2007 whilst i was 2 mos pregnant with my second son. There was no discussion about my results so i figured that every thing was normal. In october of 2007 i was about 4 or 5 mos pregnant and still seeing him on a daily basis. One day i started having back pain and pelvic pain with heavy bleeding and since it was the weekend i went to the emergency room my OBGYN is affiliated with. I was told i may perhaps be having a miscarriage but only time would tell. I saw my OBGYN within a couple of days and he acted a bit concerned and sent me for an ultrasound revealing i had previa of the placenta. Because my pregnancy was high risk at that point i decided to goto a high rish OB in early November 2007 for treatment than on to skip to after my son was born in FEB. 08 i started seeing my original OBGYN for check ups and for concerns i was having. i was having and still have constant leg pain , vaginal bleeding and pelvic pain and pressure he chalked it up to some BS that perhaps i had endometriosis ( which made sense at the time ) or bladder problems. For some reason he held off on giving me a pap until June 2009 simply because i was then having the blleding difficulties and what not. I was told to call within 4 weeks for my test results. EXACTLY 4 weeks after my test i referred to as to get the results and they were still pending August 12th i notice my OBGYNS number on my call id. I referred to as thinking they had my test results. the receptionist looked in my chart and told me it was in pending mode and that she was the 1 who called me and it was a mistake.. so i believed it. 2 days later i recieve a letter signed by my doctor stating that i want to speak with them about some test results. I instantly called them, The SAME receptionist answered and told me that she signed my doctors name and sent me the letter she checked my folder once more and said mmmm.. im not seeing any results back yet again it was a mistake , im sorry for worrying you by september i thought it was odd i never recieved my test outcomes so i made an appointment to see my OBGYN and discuss with him my test results and my re occuring bleeding. He looked at my chart and said nope nothing to worry about and chalked up my bleeding to hormonal factors and gave me birthcontrol pills. By then i was mad. I known as my new family physician and asked for her to request the results for the reason that i was not getting any where with the OBGYN and nothing! So i called once more yesterday November16th 2009 to make yet another appointment with my doctor to see if i could get an additional pap. As was talking to the exact same lovely receptionist i asked if my results came in just on a hunch then she comes back on the phone and says WEVE BEEN TRYING TO REACH YOU! YOUR TEST CAME BACK ABNORMAL! i said waiiit a minute you wrote me a letter in august saying i needed to call you in regards to my test results and you said you made a mistake! she said well you had an appointment to see your doctor after the outcomes came back in and you had been a no show I said bullshit i was there in september as well as the physician said my outcomes wernt back!. she immediately put me on hold. My obgyn got on the phone and he was all about saving face offering to waive my co-pays (which i have none) and offering to get me in in 2 weeks for a biopsy. I said screw it i want ALL my file so i can get a second oppinion. After reading my most recent pap that they jerked me around with it states i have severe dysplasia , and a high grade squamous intraepithelial lesion along with a ( CIN III ) which is precancer cells that have been left untreated. Reading back to my other previous pap in 2007 when i was pregnant that test too was abnormal with a low grade lesion , and i was also positive for HPV , he never told me that i had hpv or that my pap was abnormal in 2007 instead he let it go unknown and now im in a worse case. I dont know what legal rights i have but i know one thing is for sure.. if i was told in 2007 i had precancer cells i would have gotten it checked out correct away. Im so scared and confused. and extremely very upset that i was in the dark about everything. Any suggestions?? oh and im sorry this was sooo lengthy , i hope you get the point